Happy Holidays

Merry christmas to everyone in the whole wide world! Let's celebrate the birth of Jesus once again. Life is beautiful because of Him. Let's praise Him with all our heart, mind and soul! ^___^

blessed,
AeraH

Philippines: After the Typhoon

Philippines experienced great danger (and damage) after typhoons Ondoy and Pepeng. It was really scary. It's like a nightmare... a bad dream... Many people died, there are so many properties that were destroyed, it's like it's too difficult to move on. But here comes one another, helping each other. With everyone showing concern for each other, there's a better way out. Philippines and Filipino people stayed strong. We are still intact and fighting. We are trusting God. He had a purpose of doing things. God loves the Philippines and I know that everything will going to be alright. in due time, everything will going back to normal and there will be smiles on each faces of Filipino people again... ^___^

keep believing,
AeraH

SEMESTER BREAK!!!

Finally! it's trimester break! whoa! I was so stressed last tri... especially on thesis writing (research making)... but even though that's the case, i am thankful still because my groupmates are all okay... they are all cooperative and cool! i survived a lot of defenses and reports (which i hated and afraid of, hehe!)... anyways, it's been like... 3 days of vacation already and i've been busy playing online games on facebook... it's going to be my ultimate activity for 2 weeks... hahaha!

so nice to relax,
AeraH

A Bully Story...

I passed this on my Current Issues of Psychology subject... It was a reaction paper... it's great... i got perfect score in here... again.! ^___^... love it!

BEATING THE BULLIES
I COMMENTS/CRITISISMS:
I know how bad I look when I was a kid. Though my father always tells me, I am close to a princess - like daughter, many people don’t agree. As a baby, I am big and was labeled “Dabiana”. At grade school, a friend’s mom told that I wear cute clothes but my face isn’t cute. She’s so mean that I still can’t forget about her (well at least, her comment). My teacher in grade six called my penmanship “as big as a bull’s shit”. And the worst of all, a friend (well I thought she was) in my high school, went telling our common friends I am selfish and bad (for a reason I still don’t know until now). I’ve been a victim of bullying from the very beginning of my existence. It really affected me in all aspects. But since I am not really that vocal, I write my hurts on papers. It helped. I took all the mean words being thrown to me as an inspiration for me to improve myself. I learned to embraced my imperfections and become better. 
II IMPLICATIONS:
The movie called “Mean Creek” showed one typical example of bullying you and bullying back among kids/teens. Bullying is mean… worse maybe… and dangerous. But of course, not all types of bullying results to negative. It also results to positive, especially on the part of the bully victim. Like what happened to me, if you have strong spirit to fight back, it will lead you to a self improvement because you will learn to embrace your weaknesses and improve them. It’s not easy. But we have to get in to realization that this is our life, and nobody has the right to let us down in any way. We have to stand on our own and defend ourselves because that’s the way we are suppose to do. Let not others take rule of you. We are the same people, seeking the same thing… respect. So let us give it to each other in the nicest way possible. 

feeling great,
AeraH

RESEARCH!!!

me and my group are doing an interesting research for this semester and it's all about self - esteem and online social networking... i hope we will be getting the study at its best!!! ^____^

i hope so,
AeraH

POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY

I hesitated when my instructor asked about my opinion about Positive Psychology. It was crazy. The guys in school are so good and they have a lot to say about that. I was totally out of words. I don't know if he will agree to what I say because he was having a real bad day that early Thursday. He was like... totally not in the mood and criticized too much about my classmates opinions. I was surprised when the reaction papers were returned back after he checked them. And he gave me a perfect score of 30. This is my work...

POSITIVE PSYCHOLGY

COMMENTS/CRITISISMS:
Positive Psychology arrived at the right time in our world where too much negativity and obstacles have been arising. It was the best timing… definitely because it opens us to the door of reality that there are things we really need to value. Our lives. One of the best meanings I found is it tells that “it makes normal life more fulfilling”. As human beings, we seek so many things that can give us pleasure. But one wrong move keeps us craving for more. Positive Psychology teaches us to handle things smoothly and it will lead us to a good life. Contented, happy, fulfilled. So far, I find it interesting. It really sounds different but different in a nice way because for the first time, what it contains are complete positive views. More than that, it talks purely about helping us, humans. We live in so many what ifs, and so many mistakes. I can’t think of better lessons than Positive Psychology can offer. Opening our minds to it changes one thing or two. We can start improving our lives. It helps us look into clearer side and not in life’s imperfections. It’s beyond doubt helpful. 
IMPLICATION:
As a Psychology major, I believe that it is necessary to include positive psychology in school curriculums. First reason is that it teaches us to look life in a brighter side. People out of the field thinks that we do nothing better than reading minds and curing mental illnesses and we know of course that’s a big mistake because that’s not all. If we could learn more about Positive Psychology, we can get out with confidence and tell them that there’s more in psychology than what they think. By starting with ourselves, we can change others and perhaps the world to become better especially in handling their life situations and by looking and living their lives in a smarter way. Second, Positive Psychology should live not only in books or in words of those who study it. It should live inside the mind and inside the heart. Applying it in daily life situations can make us a better person and not just as future psychologists. Lastly, I also believe that we should not stop trusting that Positive Psychology can really make a difference. If it teaches us to be optimistic from the very start, we should end up the same way it did. There are so many things people want to feed us. But positive Psychology is special. It leads us to achieving contentment and happiness that is beyond measure. Positive Psychology can help us attain the things which can satisfy us surely. It provides us something that is not just for now… it’s for a lifetime. 

When i shared my opinion, he was laughing... I thought, I was totally out of the topic. But i was wrong. He even wrote a little smiley face on my reaction paper. It was cute. Amazingly impressive.

proud,
AeraH

REASON, SEASON... LIFETIME

People come to our lives for a reason, for a season or for a lifetime.

She is cool… she is intelligent… she is silent but deep. I never considered her to be a potential friend. She is someone I thought very far from reality. Weird… rare… dangerous. But with a twist of fate… Now we are genuine. We have shared so many things, good, bad secrets… My life is better now that I have her. She helps me in many ways. We pretty hate the same people and the same things. I know for sure that we have built something special between us. We are two people with contrasting personalities. But… for a cause or two… I know she came to my life… for a reason.

He was I thought was close to perfect. He tells me what I wanted to hear. He understands my feelings. He shares me his dreams… his goals… his ambitions… He came along at the right time I thought again. So perfect… I need someone who will treat me right. I need someone who will listen to me. He was. And I know he will always will. But like an unpublished book, a song that never sang, a house that was abandoned by its owner, a car with a flat tire and a night sky without stars, he suddenly fade away. He forgot about us, unexpectedly. Looking back with our memories together, the silent laughs, the exchange of looks and simple talks, I can’t imagine what he just gave away. A friendship that is close to becoming more than that. It was sad, it was frustrating, and it was surprisingly disappointing. He came to my life… just for a season…

This two people I am talking to… definitely gave impact in my life. I will cherish them and they will always have a special place in my heart. Because, this I know… they two people will be for a lifetime.

Understanding Everything,

AeraH

MAY!

this is my month...

this is my favorite month of the year...

everything in MAY is beautiful...

Everything is worth cherished...

it would be nice to be MAY forever... hehe!!!

may girl,

AeraH

It's Missing Time

So many things happened this term and it was so much stressed, hardworked and sleep sacrificed... I can't blame myself for working hard because what I reap, I sow... Grades is important to me as a student. Good grade is a good payment for all my sacrifices. I love the way I do things with patience, love and care. I love the way people appreciated me by all the things I'd done great. In life, it's great to be a good person to other people especially those who knows your worth. It was fun working with friends and with the new acquaintances. It was a lot of fun to have supportive instructors, and even mean instructors rock! (hehe!) Life being a student is stressful, don't get me wrong, but I love the way it is... I'm gonna miss all things of it this vacation!!!

happy break,
AeraH

This One Sad Poem

I never thought about him…
I never did really care what he says…
But it was lately then that I realized…
He has a place deep inside…
I am kind of in denial…
There is nothing to prove I said…
It was as if I am completely not affected…
It was as if a dream instead…
I come and go…
He stays still…
I pretend I don’t see him…
Then in my mind there he is…
Will I ever learn to admit myself?
All the feelings I left unsaid?
Will I ever find me in reality?
Before it’s all over?
Cause it hurts to deny the truth…
It hurts more if it’s something special…
There are things that come once in a lifetime…
And if you miss the best,
… It’s like you already miss the rest…
We can convince ourselves to everything…
Everything we made wrong decisions…
But the sad reality floats…
Like the unforgiving faults...

despair,
AeraH

How Can I???

I just realize now… Finally someone noticed me… He hangs around… so long… just sitting, looking, and observing me for a time… I just knew now… NOW… that there is no much time left… it was sad, it was a big mistake ignoring him… while he thinks about me… or at least for a moment, his thoughts are of me… I am whatever focused to other things that I never even gave a little glimpse of him, nor smile at him nor pause and initiate a talking… I am disgusted with myself… now, I’m thinking of him like I never did before… And it hurts to know the realities about him while I am falling… He’s with someone else while I am hoping… He’s getting over me while I’m just starting to like him… He’s not much all about me now, and I miss the way he treated me so sweet and so silently… It was depressing… My heart can’t help but feel the cut… I am hurting… I am missing… I am lost and in despair… how can I ignore him? How can I? How can I… I could have just said a lie…

One BIG Mistake,
AeraH

THE EARTH DAY

Vote for earth....
Early...
Now that there's still enough time left...
Let's all work together hand in hand and achieve one goal...
"BRING BACK THE EARTH TO ITS BEGINNING!!!"
Love it so it will love us back...
Move now...
NOW...
Before it's too late...

promoting earth,
AeraH

VelentineS

hmmmmmmmmmm....

what do you think about this one?

roses.........?

chocolates........?

date......?

food.........?

friends........?

hearts........?

holiday..........?

family.......?

break.......?

dinner.......?

movie..........?

...................................... well, whatever you think of and whatever your plans, have fun and enjoy!!! live, laugh and LOVE!!!

wishes,

AeraH

HEARTS DAY!

There's so many reason why we need to celebrate it even without someone special.

1. You are alive and life is about love... so live with it.
2. There's your family.
3. There's your friends (much are not taken too, so they're so much available to celebrate with, hehe!)
4. There's mall... hang out!
5. There's friendster, facebook, myspace, multiply.com etc. etc. greet your peers...
6. Read a good book... (Those of Nicholas Sparks and the like ho can make you fall in love with the characters)...
7. Watch romantic movies... fall in love with Brad Pitt, John Cusack or Adam Sandler... it's free!
8. Listen to happy songs, and raise your voice! Who cares!
9. Eat chocolates, buy your own roses (why not) and then greet your heart, happy valentines!
10. Of course, there's God, He's the guy who loves you SOOOOOO MUCH!!!

So? Now, why waste time wating for a date when there's just so much more sensible reasons to do than dinner? I tell you this. The best time to celebrate Valentines is to give yourself a sense of value and hugs and kisses to family and friends! So don't pity yourselves guys, smile!

lots of love to all,
AeraH

ISANG MAHABA AT SANGA – SANGANG KWENTO

I already did this before on my friendster blog and lately, I went reading the soft copies I printed out back then and I found it, fun! I am bringing the spirit back on BlogSpot to bring you guys a little humor and one of a kind updates. Hope you like the pilot story. He he! I believe it is going to be very crazy, but I am not scared to shout things out and make them appear more so. So let’s get it on! Understand the way you can, okay?
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Pasukan na naman at as usual, pasukan narin ng mga tindera sa tabi ng school. Hay naku, talaga namang napakalamig ng Baguio City, nakakarayuma, kawawa matatanda. Buti nalang, always available ang pharmacy ng mga medicines for that whatsoever diseases occurring nowadays. Syanga pala, kakaupo lang ni President Barack Obama sa White House (di na yata maganda pang tawaging white house yun… it is better na if we change it to black house, hehe!)… joke lang! LOL! Aba Charice Pempengco kumanta sa inauguration! Ang taray! Pahinge nga ng tissue, it’s getting hot in here na kasi! It’s nearly summer and I miss you ate Jessica, are you home na or asa Tennessee ka parin? Big time vacation mo ha? Chocolate ko! LOL! Daddy, write back Aoay and family in Daly City, okay? Mickey Grace, have you uploaded the pictures yet? Mymy, I can’t print out my novel, I ran out of ink! My God! Someone’s celebrating birthday today and I can’t remember who! Mga ka – friendster, long time no hear, comment naman diyan, and wait, Ate Yatch, how’s work with the Korean students? Driving you mad? Good Luck!!! Kakaloka naman American Idol Audition for season 8… kanya – kanyang gimik, may nakabikini, nakabunny costume… are you kidding me? LOL! 7:30 ang class ko… Mondays to Saturdays, what a schedule! Mommy, take good care of Coral the Rabbit way back home, pasensiya na if mabaho ihi at dumi niya. Can’t do anything about it you know, LOL! Ah… ate Rose? You haven’t given me my incentives for last trimester yet so don’t forget about that, alright? Brother in Singapore, I hope you will have more patience eating Indian bread, LOL! Emma girl, how’s Hong Kong? I hope you are doing fine, find me a boyfriend… oh no, I don’t like Chinese I remember now… haha! You find yours, instead! Ang mga labada, tambak na naman, kelangan ko ng labandera, bring biodata, ha? Basta 21 – 30 ang age range, my pleasing personality and dapat college graduate of any course, syempre, kelangan yan, to the highest level noh? LOL! Wala nabang ibang balita sa showbiz ngayong kundi tungkol ke BB GandangHari? Ay grabeh, di ko kaya. Hollywood buzz, totoo kaya? Ikakasal na si Beyonce ke Jay – Z? Chris Trousdale, Orlando Bloom, Tom Welling, Jesse McCartney… I miss you all!!! When are you going to fly here and see me? Or… I’ll fly there to see you? LOL! I need to study harder, days need to occur faster… gusto ko ng grumaduate utang na loob, hihihi! Gusto ko naring matapos ang term ko sa Psych Society! Ay kakaloka maging politiko! Kaya utang na loob din Gov. V and Sen. Bong, huwag ng makigulo, mag – artista nalang kayo! Ano pa ba and balita? Basta 2009 na, year of the Ox, year ko in short. Advance nalang Kung Hei Fat Choi! LOL! Oy, sa mga maghahanda ng tikoy, pashare, sarap niyan. Passport ko hindi ko matapos – tapos ilakad! Kakainis! Basta soon, need to go on tour! Hey World, here I come! Yun na yun, LOL! Babushhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

One and only,
AeraH